some help - Ausbb

fobzy · 06-02-2010, 11:35 AM

Hey everyone

So I've been training for about 4 years. Made some decent gains and slowly gettin there. My problem is with alcohol tho.

I pretty much stopped drinking , havin a couple drinks here and there. I was ok with it cause I had a gf and could stay away from clubbing.

But my gf just broke up with me. I wanna go out but its hard for me sober.

How do u guys balance it? I've mentally screwed myself because I drink and stress about training but at the same time I'm not gonna meet girls sober in a club

Admin · 06-02-2010, 12:05 PM

yes you will meet girls sober at the club , no chick like a drunken fool tripping all over them
need to remain confident

Christian · 06-02-2010, 12:13 PM

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My problem is with alcohol

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I'm not gonna meet girls sober in a club

You already know the problem you wont find any justificaitons here.

What decent girls will you meant drunk in a club anyway. I suggest you re think the priorities in life.

Shrek · 06-02-2010, 01:18 PM

The only way to meet a girl is sober. My judgement is blurred when pissed (when I use to have a drink).

TrentZor · 06-02-2010, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Shrek

The only way to meet a girl is sober. My judgement is blurred when pissed (when I use to have a drink).

the fat chicks look better to me..

Tall_Tim · 06-02-2010, 10:51 PM

Im not trying to sound harsh, but problems with alcohol are not going to get better by drinking more or trying to find reasons to drink. I know, Ive been there. Your disciplined with your training and diet? You have to maintain that discipline for things to get better.
Besides at 24 (I checked your public profile) wouldn't the money from all the $7 beers each weekend be better off going towards saving up to move out or paying mortgage/rent if you have already?

AndyMitchell · 07-02-2010, 09:36 AM

The only advice I can give is ; be yourself and you can't go wrong.

stralian · 07-02-2010, 01:45 PM

All the best with staying off the drink mate.

I always thought of it this way, is the kind of girl you meet at a club (especially in a drunken stupor) really the kind of girl you want to be with?
Some of you might say yes, but my answer is no.
I was more interested in the kind of girl you would spend the rest of your life with, not just the rest of the night.

trofius · 07-02-2010, 02:25 PM

Or look at it like this, If you stay off the piss train and eat hard, You will get huge and ripped, Some chicks like this I have heard,....BEside you may even find a very tidy like minded young lady at the gym if you spent more time there!

A few things to contemplate!.

fobzy · 07-02-2010, 03:54 PM

thanks guys

just finding it difficult cause im pretty much the only one out of a pretty big group of mates that even worries about drinking. Actually, i dont think I know one person, either from work or mates, that cares about drinking. even my gym partner drinks like a fish every weekend

(incase anyone suggests making new friends, then no. they are all good people and ive known them all my life)

now that I spend more time with them its just hard. People meet up for pre drinks and I try and stretch one drink out over an hour

also im not really looking to meet a wife in a club, just to have some fun. And i struggle to do a cold approach to a chick sober

good vibes is next weekend, and im already stressing on how to dodge drinks. its a long day on water

I dont know how you guys do it !

06-02-2010, 11:35 AM	#1 (permalink)
fobzy Rookie Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Syd Gender: Posts: 20	some help Hey everyone So I've been training for about 4 years. Made some decent gains and slowly gettin there. My problem is with alcohol tho. I pretty much stopped drinking , havin a couple drinks here and there. I was ok with it cause I had a gf and could stay away from clubbing. But my gf just broke up with me. I wanna go out but its hard for me sober. How do u guys balance it? I've mentally screwed myself because I drink and stress about training but at the same time I'm not gonna meet girls sober in a club

06-02-2010, 12:05 PM	#2 (permalink)
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06-02-2010, 10:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
Tall_Tim Junior Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Penriff Gender: Posts: 184	Im not trying to sound harsh, but problems with alcohol are not going to get better by drinking more or trying to find reasons to drink. I know, Ive been there. Your disciplined with your training and diet? You have to maintain that discipline for things to get better. Besides at 24 (I checked your public profile) wouldn't the money from all the $7 beers each weekend be better off going towards saving up to move out or paying mortgage/rent if you have already? __________________ 1 Slinky + 1 Escalator = Unlimited Fun!

07-02-2010, 09:36 AM	#7 (permalink)
AndyMitchell Active Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: As close as the restraining order allows Gender: Posts: 3,074	The only advice I can give is ; be yourself and you can't go wrong. __________________ as long as you keep doing what you're doing, you're going to keep getting what you're getting.

07-02-2010, 01:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
stralian Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: QLD Gender: Posts: 251	All the best with staying off the drink mate. I always thought of it this way, is the kind of girl you meet at a club (especially in a drunken stupor) really the kind of girl you want to be with? Some of you might say yes, but my answer is no. I was more interested in the kind of girl you would spend the rest of your life with, not just the rest of the night. __________________ The Aussie Way! http://ausbb.com/rules-information-m...eam-ausbb.html

07-02-2010, 02:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
trofius Active Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Rockhampton Gender: Posts: 1,825	Or look at it like this, If you stay off the piss train and eat hard, You will get huge and ripped, Some chicks like this I have heard,....BEside you may even find a very tidy like minded young lady at the gym if you spent more time there! A few things to contemplate!. __________________ Mick..yes another one there are hundreds here..! Currently 74kg, 173cm ~15%bf, 1 RM: B125, BS150, FS110 D180, MP75, PP80, PC90 6 RM: B100, BS110, FS80, D160, MP60, PP60, PC70 http://ausbb.com/member-training-dia...ys-2010-a.html

07-02-2010, 03:54 PM	#10 (permalink)
fobzy Rookie Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Syd Gender: Posts: 20	thanks guys just finding it difficult cause im pretty much the only one out of a pretty big group of mates that even worries about drinking. Actually, i dont think I know one person, either from work or mates, that cares about drinking. even my gym partner drinks like a fish every weekend (incase anyone suggests making new friends, then no. they are all good people and ive known them all my life) now that I spend more time with them its just hard. People meet up for pre drinks and I try and stretch one drink out over an hour also im not really looking to meet a wife in a club, just to have some fun. And i struggle to do a cold approach to a chick sober good vibes is next weekend, and im already stressing on how to dodge drinks. its a long day on water I dont know how you guys do it !