I can understand that and know that but at the end of the day I still think that something needs to flick the switch on this and it not just come down to say a hormone inbalance....
I think it would be a very good idea for him to go to the doctor to get things checked out because if it is as simple as just a hormone inbalance then give him some drugs and he will be sweet...I guess? or is that the case....do u really want ppl treated like that? for me no not really - there has to be an underlining problem that is causing unhappiness....
I know depression can "just be there" but why? - if its thyroid probs or hormone probs etc then its not really depression is it? its a thyroid or hormone imbalance.....
Its very easy for ppl who are unhappy or have depression to just go to the doctor and go on diff drugs and live their life like they did before...but that just masks a problem....ppl need to not go on drugs/supplements etc and work everything out within them self.
I don't blame society. Its just the way it is. However the fact the doctors etc wouldnt help me pisses me off somewhat.
I don't blame society. Its just the way it is. However the fact the doctors etc wouldnt help me pisses me off somewhat.
He cant help you if he doesnt know how..
There are alot of things that can fuck up in the human body. Yes it would be nice if people could understand them all but the mind simply cant grasp that much infomation. That is why people pick 1 aspect and run with it for all its worth (i.e for me the neuro-endocrine system) ..
If he hasnt looked into it then he wouldnt know about it.
Thought id try one last time. The psycologist said I needed to speak to a psyciatrist and or doctor to get medication.
Mate listen to them. Your much more likely to get reliable help from them than random unqualified people off the net.
I'v been wondering how does being depressed effect your training/strength gains? I'd assume it wouldn't be good. I read through this thread but I didn't see it mentioned.
It is very hard to actually do anything. Imagine a brick wall falling on top of you. Some days it is difficult to get out of bed, other days you just have to go to bed. Sleeping and waking up the next day sometimes helps.
A simple explanation from a clinical level is: Depression is anger turned inward. From a spiritual level, Depression can be seen as the mind wanting to, but is unable to, latch on to something that made it happy in the past or something new that may make it happy. Ever wondered why people become addicted to porn? It's because the mind found pleasure with it and therefore compels the body and consciousness to go there again, and again, and again.
Some people confuse sadness with depression. Sadness is temporary whereas depression can be debilitating. it is important to understand what you are truly feeling.
I believe the worst thing a person can do is try to bury or pass-off sadness, depression, anxiety, anger, and stress. You must face what is preventing you from becoming calm and content, otherwise you will never emerge from the darkness.
Never accept "suck it up", or "get over it". Whoever says those things does not understand the reality of the nature of existence.
I could go on for a very long time, but to help, check out this site Audio Dharma - Gil Fronsdal's Dharma Talks
It is a Buddhist talks repository. Don't be scared away by the B word. It's not aimed at converting anyone nor trying to convince you what ever religion (or lack of) you belong to is wrong. That's not what we're about. These talks are there to help you. They helped me a lot.
I am happy to help others suffering from life's challenges. We do it without applying guilt. Under no circumstance should you accept guilt.
Always know this: you are never alone.
Let me first say you do not ever just cope with depression, you attack it. When I had depression it was due to numerous factors like a shit job (still have it but work less), not knowing what I wanted to do, living at shit place with some shit people, and having a lot of pressure being put on me, I also had to deal with my wifes dad dying so put all those together and it eventually got to me down. I 'coped' with it by eating shit food and stopped exercising two terrible choices. After a while I got over it by fixing what was wrong, confronting people, removing crap things, learning to look more positively on things, dealing with problems as they come up. Theres a lot more to it but basically that the start.
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