Hmm I am going to respond to some of your points. To be honest it seems a little immature to assume everyone is going to be your friend. This is the big bad world people are gonna hate on you and fuck you up for their own advantage all the time.
Some people may not like your love the world I'm everyones friend attitude, maybe she thinks your a fake. I usually assume overly friendly people are fake or weak non-confrontationists.
The workplace like life is a dog eat dog world, try to make everyone your friend and they will take advantage of you. You need to learn about professional boundries, divorce yourself from your emotions when dealing with colleauges.
What industry are you in? If I was a senior person there and I had two catty girls fighting over petty crap and causing shit in the office I would be trying to get rid of both of you. Shit like that effects productivity and just gives your boss more crap to deal with, on top of all their usual day to day bullshit.
Maybe she does see me as fake, but no-one is gonna make friends if ur hostile from the start, I just wanted it to be comfortable working together/ friendly
Why do you need her to be your friend anyway? Just ignore her as if she doesn't exist. I working in a company with 6000+ peole. It's impossible for me to be friends with everyone. Not even people in my team. Also I only ask people for coffee that I enjoy having a chat with. If she doesn't enjoy spending time with you for "whatever who knows what" reason, then just let her be. I don't get what the big deal is.
Ok so this has probably been resolved but I feel like responding anyway. She hates you for good reason but it's a reason that you don't know anything about.
One afternoon you both left work at the same time and her boyfriend saw you walking to your car as he was waiting to pick her up. She noticed that he looked back twice before he drove away and then when they got home he bent her over the kitchen bench where he couldn't see her face and gave her a good seeing to on your account. Chicks can read this stuff like a book so he thinks he got away with it and you don't know why she hates you but she hates you for sure.
This may be hypothetical but it may also be closer than you think.... or she's just a bitch.
Ok so this has probably been resolved but I feel like responding anyway. She hates you for good reason but it's a reason that you don't know anything about.
One afternoon you both left work at the same time and her boyfriend saw you walking to your car as he was waiting to pick her up. She noticed that he looked back twice before he drove away and then when they got home he bent her over the kitchen bench where he couldn't see her face and gave her a good seeing to on your account. Chicks can read this stuff like a book so he thinks he got away with it and you don't know why she hates you but she hates you for sure.
This may be hypothetical but it may also be closer than you think.... or she's just a bitch.
Ok so this has probably been resolved but I feel like responding anyway. She hates you for good reason but it's a reason that you don't know anything about.
One afternoon you both left work at the same time and her boyfriend saw you walking to your car as he was waiting to pick her up. She noticed that he looked back twice before he drove away and then when they got home he bent her over the kitchen bench where he couldn't see her face and gave her a good seeing to on your account. Chicks can read this stuff like a book so he thinks he got away with it and you don't know why she hates you but she hates you for sure.
This may be hypothetical but it may also be closer than you think.... or she's just a bitch.
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