Bit more complicated than I'd like Dave, second time she's ever been with a guy (oops) gotta stop thinking with my dick. And I'm thinking vest and cup at this point in time.
We just realised that life was for living
To be quite honest... I really think it's normal. Be with anyone for long enough and the spark dies. If we're talking sexually, I think 90% of the time, no matter how attracted you are initially to one another.. this will fade in time. Which is why I think it's important to have someone you connect with in other aspects of life (humor, share similar tastes etc).
Edit: bit about mate
Are the feelings mutual?
Bit more complicated than I'd like Dave, second time she's ever been with a guy (oops) gotta stop thinking with my dick. And I'm thinking vest and cup at this point in time.
Can't agree with that, success rates (if you can call it that) in the old days were because divorce wasn't an option - you just put up with your lot in life.
The biggest problem we have is a society with the attention span of a gnat, a general lack of communication skills and a throw-away mentality.
I'm happy to report that after 20 years of marriage and four beautiful daughters, that I belong to the other 10%!
Fadi.
Good on you Fadi, keep it up. The happiest people I have known are my Grandparents who have been married for 66 years now. People just dont seem to stick around with each other these days, its too easy to give someone the flick and start something new.The ultimate aim of anyone! Good on ya man.
Thank you Grippy.Good on you Fadi, keep it up. The happiest people I have known are my Grandparents who have been married for 66 years now. People just dont seem to stick around with each other these days, its too easy to give someone the flick and start something new.
Thank you Grippy.
People these days more often than not think that the grass is somehow/somewhat greener on the other side of the fence, where in fact they have not fully come to know their side of the fence or better still, their own selves. There's dealing and there's leaving. Humans left to their own devices would more often than not choose leaving an issue instead of dealing with it. We have to learn to deal with adversity and make it our best friend of all if we are to travel the path of personal growth.
Each and every one of us on this forum has met with some sort of adversity in their life. What separates us from each other is to be found in the actions we decided to take at the time if we in fact took any action. Some are driven by the challenges of life whilst others allow the challenges to drive over them instead.
Communication is great and we're always hearing about it and utilising it. However in my opinion, as we need to walk before we could run, we also have to become proficient in intrapersonal communication skills before ever hoping to become masters of interpersonal communication skills. In other words, to know one's self is to know others and have the ability and strength to deal with them and with whatever they throw at us.
I'll leave it here before I really get carried away and as always, I thank you for your time.
Fadi.
Fadi my friend,
I think you SHOULD get carried away here!
I need all the wisdom from a 'being' who's along the path
somewhat more than ME.
I can safely say that you have a lot of wisdom in your short
numerical numbers called age (I believe that most will agree
with me here on that).
Also I agree 100% about what you have stated above. However,
sometimes we have walked a path and then have a realisation
that for whatever reason it maybe the wrong path.
So the question beckons weather to turn back? divert? or keep
on keeping on???
Elaborate pls.
Thanks
Devante.
When it comes to women, there's 3 attributes men look for:
Attractiveness
Intelligence
Sanity
Problem is, you can really only pick 2.
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