My other favourite quote from The Fat Girl Manifesto is "Love me for who I am, not what I look like" or "Don't judge a book by its cover". The road to a house full of 30 cats is paved by pastries and sentiments like these.
If you want to be appreciated as a person, and receive attention, kind remarks and have conversations with guys - receive 'emotional love' - that's fine. I have a 150kg female friend (though I'm concerned for her health). If you expect physical love then you need to take care of yourself physically.
Fat Girl Manifesto
Chapter 1: Love me for who I am
Chapter 2: Food, love, and baking for friends (SOME for them).
Chapter 3: Why your sexual aggression at parties goes unnoticed -> Men are Pigs.
Chapter 4: Why people telling you to diet hate you
Chapter 5: Food and Love Revisited - Are there any differences? No.
Chapter 6: etc.....