MikeW
Member
Good thread, real issue.
I've been married now for 6 years and was living with my wife for 10 years before that. I've had similar mixed emotions in the past, but never strayed. Lately we've recovered a bit of the spark of our courting days and its been great. Don't know how it happened really. We just realised that life was for living and how much we still loved each other and started saying as much quite regularly. We make time to talk to each other and listen and I try and lift my game and share the housework as much as possible. I don't sit down until she does.
It all adds up. We couldn't imagine being with anyone else and are getting on with our complex over-worked and over-stressed lives as best we can. Its almost 4pm now and I'm looking forward to getting home and spending time with her and my 5yo boy. They're my real passion.
Cheers,
Mike
I've been married now for 6 years and was living with my wife for 10 years before that. I've had similar mixed emotions in the past, but never strayed. Lately we've recovered a bit of the spark of our courting days and its been great. Don't know how it happened really. We just realised that life was for living and how much we still loved each other and started saying as much quite regularly. We make time to talk to each other and listen and I try and lift my game and share the housework as much as possible. I don't sit down until she does.
It all adds up. We couldn't imagine being with anyone else and are getting on with our complex over-worked and over-stressed lives as best we can. Its almost 4pm now and I'm looking forward to getting home and spending time with her and my 5yo boy. They're my real passion.
Cheers,
Mike