Kindred, you seem to say that you can't a LOT. 
Like Hulk said, set some goals and stick to them.  If you REALLY want something, you will do what you can to get it.
Now I have changed jobs I have to get up even earlier.  It's my first week at it.  It's only 15 mins earlier, but at the beginning of the week it was a killer.  Now that it's my third day, body has adjusted quite quickly and it's getting easier.  
Stop expecting things to happen instantaneously, try and be patient and it will work.