Joel and FST 99 .... To me i think you guys are onto something and I also have to agree with everything you both have said.
Both me and my misses at the moment have been out and seen the world thought we were in love and felt the highs and lows. We have both been in previous relationships we thought where the ones (hell i was with my ex 6 years) and we both believe our previous experiences are what show us how different a relationship is when u actually find the one.
I'm happier now then I have been since i was 17
As a 22 yr old, is it bad i whole heartily agree with rambo?
As a 22 yr old, is it bad i whole heartily agree with rambo?
Im 21 and l agree with him.
Can I ask why it matters if you are with someone that has slept with someone else???
Not a dig just wondering....
All good,
My last mrs was a whore more or less and l didn't think it bothered me because she was 'different' now. But it still got brought up here and there and then l thouht of all the other shit she did. Granted l was 18-19 and even though im still a kid l had severe retardation at that point with insecurities etc so thats why l think it bothered me. Might be different now but im not sure yet...
Totally agree. l think its easier when you mature and get older though. It doesn't become a big deal or even anything to think about anymore.
I don't have that problem, been with my wife since we were quite young. But if I were single it would definitely matter to me if the girl I was interested in had slept with numerous people. Not only would I be worried about sexual disease but ultimately it would conflict with how I perceive sexual intercourse. To me it represents the closest 2 people can possibly be together, it represents a coming together of the mind body and soul and must be viewed with the up-most of responsibility (sorry, but a condom and 'the pill' don't cover that IMO). To me it represents more than the act itself, it holds a very special meaning to me and the one I am with. A woman holds the power of sexuality, by having control of this feminine power, she truly has control in all other aspects of her life. Those who seem to lack this self discipline and sleep around in the name of fun are usually perceived as the wild girls for a reason, they are for 'fun times only', not marriage and kids material as they lack the ability for self respect, and it goes that they would also lack the ability to teach self respect to there young. Obviously people change over time and as they get older most of these ladies change their tune, and take a more monogamous view to their sexual relations (some say its the biological clock that does this to woman). Problem is, they usually have a hard time finding a guy who is their age who has decided to settle down too and end up with a dud dick head. Not all, but most from what I see.
Unfortunately most don't see it my way, a fuck is just a fuck,.......but I ask most with this misconstrued opinion; If a fuck is just that, than why does it matter if someone your with sleeps with others whilst they are with you?.....I only met 1 person who does this with their partner and didn't care, they have an 'open' relationship, I call it a fucken mess and feel very sorry for their 2 kids, but that's another story LOL.
Disclaimer:
This is just my opinion, I won't respond to those with a different opinion and want to argue about it, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, especially when it comes down to sex and sexuality.
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I dont like sluts, thats why the number will matter to me. STDS are far too common these days, so is unprotected sex, even for those that wear condoms they dont protect you against all stds.
I find it quite disgusting the amount of guys young girls have been with, and 18yo thats been with over 20 guys? a 25yo thats been with over 40? Sorry but no matter how you look at it I dont think that can be classed as living life, its being a whore.
Before anyone jumps in and says I have double standards, Im 27 and have been with 2 girls. I havent slept with anyone since I broke up with my last girlfriend 2.5 years ago, I was with her for 7 years. I dont hold girls to any higher standards than I hold myself to.
Im sure we all know the difference between a slut and a girl that has been with a few guys and made one or two mistakes.
I also agree with most of what Rambo said, about how it should be meaningful.
What about your gf/bf's future lovers?
Especially very near future..
There is a diff between a slut/whore and a girl who has slept with a few guys....you can get a very nice girl who might of made some relationship/sexual mistakes...you cant judge her on that...
You can tell if a girls a whore/slut....by the way they act, the things they do etc etc....if your dating a nice girl who treats you well, but has made some bad mistakes then dont judge her for that....if your dating a chick whos a straight up slut, cheats on you with every guy, treats you like shit, is a bitch, heard dirty stories about her etc etc then thats a diff story....
Its hard to explain what I mean...but there is a diff between a nice girl who has made some mistakes, or just likes sex and a chick who will sleep with anyone with a cock....
Judge girls for how they treat you not for how many ppl they have slept with....
Again at the end of the day if your totally confident within yourself and your sexual performance then it shouldnt matter if a girls slept with 2 guys or 20...
What about your gf/bf's future lovers?
Especially very near future..
That should be something you ignore and dont give a shit about......
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