Skalatharx
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Hi guys I've been quite for awhile due to the shit fight I have been going through. Firstly I separated from my wife of 6 years. Recovered from that then starting dating this cool NZ chick from work. Things where going along great until she became pregnant. Now the wife and I tried for years to have kids but no luck, I always pinned it down to heavy aas use when I was younger. 5 weeks into dating this other girl she says she is late and takes 2 preg tests confirming our suspicions.
went to the docs to get a check up and he said roughly 5 to 6 weeks. I was a little worried and.started asking her questions on exes etc. She swore black and blue that her last sexual partner was 6 months ago.
I consulted my mate and said go for a paternity test when the child is born. I mentioned this to get and God that was mistake number one. After that we started having these petty arguments that just kept adding up. She then made the decision to take her and her son back to her mins (she has an 8 year old boy). So I let her of course not trying to be. Prick.I then kept asking her where we stood.and she kept saying I don't know all the time. Anyway after a week of me asking that and still not getting an answer, I said well what do you want to do? She then phones me and broke up with me. A few choice words where said on both our behalves in the heat of the moment.
She is now about 7 weeks pregnant with my baby and I texted her yesterday and asked if she wanted to drop some of her stuff off at work. She then cracks it and tells me to leave her the fck alone and if I don't she will seeking legal help. All I want is to be there for the baby when its born and be a father, she hates my guts rite now and I'm afraid she is fling to have the baby and leave me out of the loop. Am I screwed? Do I have any rites at all?
went to the docs to get a check up and he said roughly 5 to 6 weeks. I was a little worried and.started asking her questions on exes etc. She swore black and blue that her last sexual partner was 6 months ago.
I consulted my mate and said go for a paternity test when the child is born. I mentioned this to get and God that was mistake number one. After that we started having these petty arguments that just kept adding up. She then made the decision to take her and her son back to her mins (she has an 8 year old boy). So I let her of course not trying to be. Prick.I then kept asking her where we stood.and she kept saying I don't know all the time. Anyway after a week of me asking that and still not getting an answer, I said well what do you want to do? She then phones me and broke up with me. A few choice words where said on both our behalves in the heat of the moment.
She is now about 7 weeks pregnant with my baby and I texted her yesterday and asked if she wanted to drop some of her stuff off at work. She then cracks it and tells me to leave her the fck alone and if I don't she will seeking legal help. All I want is to be there for the baby when its born and be a father, she hates my guts rite now and I'm afraid she is fling to have the baby and leave me out of the loop. Am I screwed? Do I have any rites at all?